Hello ringworm, I stumbled unto your blog from Linda ikeji's and I realized its about relationship and marriage and that made me quite happy. I have a problem was too ashamed to talk to my friends and family about, please I need your advice I don't know what to make of this anymore. I got married July of 2012, it was really nice and rosy for a while because we spent all the time together and had sex all the time, we even lie that we are sick so we would not go to work. I really loved the attention and sex at first because I thought it was sheer love, but now its only sex he talks about any other topic irritates him even when I ask what he wants to eat he doesn't respond well but when he wants sex he starts talking to me. He leaves work and comes home for sex and then go back again, he sometimes want us to rush home even before end of church service just for sex. Recently I started refusing him sex because we most times have sex when am dry and even exhausted from work. Things have gotten worse since then because he has started forcing me, he pins me down and even hits me just for him to satisfy his sexual wants and when his done he will cry and beg telling me he is sorry and I should not tell anyone, this is my own husband. I have been silently looking for help online because I have not been able to tell anyone until 3 weeks ago, he was really sick and was in the hospital, he was so weak that the doctor said he should be admitted. When I went to visit him, he told the nurse he wants to be alone with his wife so when she left, when we were alone he asked me to perform fellatio, I couldn't believe what was going on I ran from the hospital to his mother's house to tell her everything but her response was as if she knew already, all she told me was to calm down and things will be fine. Please I need advice help not for only me but my husband, Please I beg of you and your readers help me out.
you do have great articles but you hardly post them frequently. I love yor articles but am disappointed in you ringworm
ReplyDeleteAm so sorry Mitchell I have been mixing work and blogging but I have created more time for blogging now. Due to the amount of emails I have gotten and your complain I have decided to blog more from hencefort.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is suffering from sex addiction, in this part of the world it is not considered a problem but it is a serious problem.
ReplyDeleteSmh..... your mother in law is evil, is that all she can say? Your husband needs deliverance only prayers and divine intervention can help him
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ReplyDeleteWe are talking about sexual instinct,you are talking about devine intervention.As for me,the problem your husband is suffering from that makes him want to copulate every seconds has to do with medical aesthesis though it's not really a disease. I can see you really love your hubby so do him a favour.."complain to the doctor what his problem really is i'm very sure it has an ailment.
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