SEX TIPS FOR COUPLES..........kwokirikwo

Love making is an integral part of any marriage. what if you feel that your sex life has turned somewhat dull and drab and needs a little "ginger"?. There are a millions things you can do to spark up your bedroom sessions. Am going to roughly give you some tips to ginger kwokirikwo, that have been tested and trusted.

Ginger 1. The G-spot is a very special place that you can easily probe and deeply awaken her innermost desires. And one of the best ways to achieve this is by first creating "neural pathways" between the brain and the female genitals through touch arousal. Basically, talk as you touch her. Tell her where exactly you are going to place your tongue or fingers next. The sheer thought of that increases the sensation around the area you told her you intend to attack. The auditory signals will help her feel the sensations FASTER and accelerate the neural connections.......conji has turned me into a neurologist

Ginger 2. Instead of the standard missionary position, let your wife get on top so that she has total rhythmic control over the speed and intensity of penetration. This position enables you to stimulate her breasts and clitoris and build up her arousal quickly. For a variation of this position, have her face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating her G-spot with your penis.........who doesn't like the cherry on the top

Ginger 3. The sweet, soft lips holds thousands of tiny nerve endings. You'd be pleasantly surprised how this simple gesture can turn her on very easily. Kiss her and give her lips some tender loving attention. The trick is to start slow, plant gentle kisses, then kick up into a more intense and passionate mode............xxxxxxxx

Ginger 4. The woman’s mind is the central repository of all her sexual emotions and energy. Thus your words and the way you touch her can be the gateway to turning her on. Whisper sexily into her ears, this is a very powerful skill and a good place to start. Gentle, non-sexual touching works wonderfully well too. This can be something as simple as running your fingers through her hair or holding her close to you or just staring at her for a long time. Let her notice your staring ...........burn her like fire

Ginger 5. During intercourse, take her hands and hold them over her head. Most women fantasize about being dominated in a primal manner like this during sex. In fact, many women also like to have their hands held down when they are in the throes of pleasure..........hostage situation

Ginger 6. Let her lie on her back, lift her legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then slide into her. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit her G-spot, if your penis bends slightly upward when erect, you have a 90percent chance of hitting the G-spot.........lucky guy

Ginger 7. Refrain from heading straight for her genitals. Instead, tease her playfully. kiss her gently, allowing your tongue to work magic on her sensual spots… from her ears, to her neck, down her navel. Keep going down (skip her vagina) and traverse down her inner thighs, back of the knees to her toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, oboy purposely avoid them, this will escalate her sexual anticipation... and when you finally decide to reach those sensitive zones, her heart will be racing and her chances of achieving a toe-curling, sheet-gripping orgasm will increase twentyfold............yimu

Ginger 8. Women have this amazing ability to increase their alternate sensory awareness when one of their senses is inhibited. For instance, when you blindfold her, her sense of touch, smell and hearing will suddenly become amplified. Use this to your advantage and create a sensual build-up during sex. She will try hard to guess what you are going to do next, or which part of her body you are going to venture upon. Her sense of touch will become triple sensitive when she cannot see, so pay your attention to those sensuous spots where she normally loves to be touched. These will send her temperatures racing very quickly..............when she starts acting like she's been electrocuted, no tell anyone say an my blog you read am oh

Ginger 9. Every wife has her own ideas and fantasies about the perfect sex -one that she is probably too shy to bring it out into the open. To keep her on the erotic edge all the time, ask her to write down her fantasies on one of those small post-it pads and drop them in a small box which you will provide (wrist watch case, shoe box or any small box). It can be the type of foreplay she wants; the position she prefers or the role play she fantasizes about. Every now and then, when you want to sizzle things up, just dip into the box, retrieve one of these and relive her fantasies on the spot..............bedroom lotto

Ginger 10. Oral sex alone can trigger an amazing orgasm in a woman… even without sexual penetration. A good 10 minutes is enough to set her up for a massive orgasm very quickly. Now try this! trace the letters of alphabet with your tongue on her; she will find this extremely arousing as your tongue stimulates her in different directions (chai! my favourite). She will love the lower-case letter "i", with the dot hitting her with erotic pleasure. And letter Q is kinda hard to trace with the tongue (just giving you expo)...............if you no sabi ABC, please jump to ginger 9

Ginger 11. Speak up when she's naked and tell her how much you appreciate her body. Many Nigeria women worry about how they look when the clothes come off. Such inhibitions make it harder for a woman to orgasm. Also, women who feel embarrassed about their bodies are less sexually assertive. So if you love the way she looks when she's naked, share the news! Make her feel hot and sexy about herself. Genuine flattery will go a long way in helping her relax and prime her for an orgasmic experience.............your mouth can move mountains

Ginger 12. There are a thousand things you can do with food in your bedroom! Smear ice cream all over your partner’s body and then lick it off… sloooowly! Hmmmm. It gives him or her a cool and warm feeling at the same time. You can even try chocolate for a more flavored experience. Spread the good stuff all over your partner’s body. Licking it off slowly will drive her crazy............yummy

Ginger 13. Women! play the dress game. Dont take of all your clothe, leave some on for the mean time and watch him turn to a he goat because he will keep wondering what lies beneath those clothes. Men get more aroused when some part of the woman body is left to imagination. Take of your clothes slowly and sexily, he will pounce on you like a lion.....................Return of simba; the lion king

Ginger 14. A woman's breast is an erogenous area that men love to touch. But it pays to be patient. focus on the rest of her body first, starting with her hands, wrist, her neck(the lower neck especially), this will get her aroused much faster. When she's highly aroused, move on to her breast and nipples, gently kissing, stroking and licking them..............breastology

Ginger 15. Ice cubes can be a really kinky way to arouse a woman during sex. This works even better if she is blindfolded (see tip above). Take an ice cube and run it along her body, allowing it to get close to her sensitive nipples. For added excitement, try putting the ice cube in your mouth and then giving her oral sex. The warmth of your tongue coupled with the coolness of the ice will send her into spasms of pleasure!................ice prince

Ginger 16. Most men don't know what truly turns a woman on in between the sheets. The way to this is simply ASK HER! (like i said in the previous article on communication)Get into some hot naughty dialog. Observe her when she touches herself and listen to voice and learn where her hot buttons are, then stimulate her. This will get her sexual desires up in a hurry.............Communication is key

Ginger 17. The doggy-style is a great position that women love, because it is primal and can give them wild orgasms when you penetrate with the right angle and tempo. Here's a little variation that will blow her mind: Instead of getting her down on all fours, place a pillow beneath her tummy and let on lie flat on the bed. This slight elevation helps you thrust downwards into her orgasmic zone and stimulate the upper walls of her vagina..........Backdoor

Ginger 18. When you're penetrating her, vary the speed and intensity, and make sure your pubic mound is rubbing against her clitoris. When she's on the brink of orgasm, slow down your penetrations. She will want you to give it to her as feverishly as you can. This trick will not only make you last longer and boost your sexual stamina, she will get a mind- blowing orgasm just knowing how erotically you're teasing her!..........when physics and physiology

Ginger 19. Most women need at least 10 to 15 minutes of stimulation before they can climax. Unfortunately, most men last only a short 2-4 minutes. Kegel exercises are great for improving sexual stamina by strengthening the PC muscle. You can locate this muscle by halting your urine flow midway; the muscle that you feel contracting is the PC muscle. Doing kegels for just 5 minutes a day for 2 weeks can make you last as long as she does, or even outlast her.........Conan the barbarian

Ginger 20. A woman's body is incredibly blessed with many erogenous areas. Start with these areas first, and when she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity, and see what gives her the most pleasure. (Women! Keep your body fresh and clean so your man can use his tongue and mouth to explore your ENTIRE body).............lizard man

Ginger 21. When giving women oral sex, many men make the mistake of jumping right in and start stimulating their partners with their tongue. That is somewhat wrong.. you need to slowly turn the dial to heat her up. Take your time to playfully tease her; kiss her on her neck and nibble on her ear lobes; gently stroke her inner thighs. All these little gestures will turn a woman on quickly and get her ready before you start going down on her............oya

Ginger 22. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated. When you kiss her, look into her eyes and run your fingers down the back of her spine. Spend quality time on slow, tantalizing foreplay. When you penetrate her, acknowledge her presence and ask if that feels great for her. Above all, be a man and focus on her needs exclusively FIRST. You will emerge a far better lover, and when she is finally aroused you will definately reap what you have sown in ways you never imagined...............foul play 101

Ginger 23. A woman's ears are one of the most sensual parts of her body. Try leaning your body against hers, gently whispering into her ear. When in this position, assure her of good things. Tell her how much you want, adore and cherish her. The gentle stir of warm air around her ear will heighten her sexual anticipation............Earotic

Ginger 24. No matter how hard or how deep you penetrate her, you are unlikely to stimulate her enough to climax. Instead of thrusting straight in as usual, use your hips to mimic a rotational motion. This works great for her because it helps you stimulate all sides of her vaginal wall..........Hmmmm

Ginger 25. Be consistent with your movement and rhythm during intercourse. If she likes what you are doing, keep at it. Many men forget about this and attempt to change the pace just when their partners are getting into the mood, you will only bring her back to square one. If you sense that she can't take it anymore, this means she's about to hit the peak. Keep the tempo going and you will bring her over the edge.........Oh yeah

Ginger 26. Lie on your sides and allow both your bodies to face each other really close. Raise her upper leg, slide inside her and drape her leg over yours tightly. Push both your feet against a wall. It adds greater power and intensity during penetration, and provides intense stimulation to her clitoris while she is hugging your trunk with her legs. Besides being great for creating intimacy, this position initiates sex at a leisurely pace that progresses into an intense, heart-pounding action that will blow her mind. This may take a some certain level of skill but it can be done and its quite enjoyable..........go hard or go home

Ginger 27. Don't head off to sleep straight after a lovemaking session, Women are emotional beings. They want to feel special not just during sex, but after sex as well. A good cuddle will make her feel wanted and appreciated for who she is. This can work magic into your relationship..............Trust me

Contrary to conventional thinking, women love sex as much as guys do, if not more. So as a husband, you have the obligation to make your wife feel good and vice versa. Do not relent on anything because you will return to square one and kill the intimacy level. Explore your body and minds, bring out your desires and operate on levels that people will crack their heads thinking of what is making your marriage blossom.

Warning: I do not support fornication in any way, so this article can be read by all, but practiced by married couples.

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HOW TO INCREASE INTIMACY FOR COUPLES

     Warning: these tips are strictly for married couples due to the sacrifices involved to practice them, so   if you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend, you should use them at your own risk.

COMMUNICATION
When you mention the word intimacy, The word can evoke a kaleidoscope of emotions. From love, excitement, tenderness to longing, anxiety, and disappointment. And so many people will encounter all these emotions and many others in the course of their relationships. Your understanding of yourselves as emotional beings, your thoughts about what constitutes a satisfying emotional connection, and your relationship with your partner are key factors in your ability to develop and maintain a fulfilling relationship.
Many couples find it difficult to talk about intimacy even under the best of circumstances. Feelings of hurt, when sexual problems occur, shame, guilt, and resentment can halt conversation altogether. Because good communication is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship, establishing a dialogue is the first step not only to a closer emotional bond, but also to a better sex life. Everywhere in the world and in Nigeria especially, we have grown to be slightly or overly ashamed of our emotional and intimate wants and needs for fear of being socially crucified by the average thinkers and even our partners.

When a wife demands for a change from the conventional sex position and wants to try other positions, she is an ashawo.
When a couple decides to eat from the same plate in restaurants, they are show offs and been childish.
When a man decides to listen to his wife most of the time based on reasons best known to him, he a woman wrapper.
When a woman wants to spend a whole lot of time with hussy, she's been in too clingy.
When a woman gets to a certain age, the average thinkers are on her neck, and you hear things like; go and find a husband and so many more.

You may not believe, but all these unintelligent talks, thoughts and ideologies shape relationships and marriages in Nigeria. Though a lot of people these days are actually escaping the average thinkers zone and settings standards and goals for their relationships and marriages regardless of what anybody or the average thinkers have to say. Also a lot of people try hard to escape but still fall back to average thinking

Here are some tips to tackling this sensitive issue.

Avoid mediocre ideologies and average thinking.
Your relationship is about you and your partner alone, so forget mediocre relationship advice from the so-called social circle, compulsory cultural patterns, religious brouhaha and small talks from peeps. The foundation of your relationship should be built on the wants and needs of you and your partner which obviously varies from couple to couple. If its npt a crime to man and a sin to God then you are good to go.

Find the right time to talk
There are two types of intimacy conversations: the ones you have in the bedroom and the ones you have elsewhere. It’s perfectly appropriate to tell your partner what feels good in the middle of lovemaking, but it’s best to wait until you’re in a more neutral setting to discuss negative issues, such as mismatched sexual desire, orgasm troubles e.t.c

Try to Avoid criticizing
Make suggestions in positive terms, such as, "I really love it when you touch my hair lightly that way," rather than focusing on the negatives, approach a sexual issue as a problem to be solved together rather than an exercise in passing blame. Instead of criticizing, lead your partner down a path By making your statements suggestive. You play so much with my nipples before sex, I love it is the first time to the first time  OR When you play in between my thighs, it drives me crazy please don't stop doing it. When you start like this, it increases the urge to communicate more. Then you can Slowly chip in the negative later on if there is any.

Confide in your partner about changes in your body
Men can be clueless about changes that occur in women. Enlighten him! hot flashes are keeping you up at night or menopause has made your vagina dry, talk to your partner about these things. It’s much better that he knows what’s really going on so he wouldn't interpret these changes as lack of interest. Likewise, if you’re a man and you no longer get an erection just from the thought of sex and you need more to get junior ready for action, show your partner how to stimulate you rather than let her believe she isn’t beautiful and attractive enough to arouse you anymore.

Always Be honest
You may think you’re protecting your partner’s feelings by faking an orgasm and pretending to enjoy sex, but in reality you’re starting down a slippery slope. Think of what will happen to you in the long run. As challenging as it is to talk about any sexual problem, the difficulty level skyrockets once the issue is buried under years of lies, hurt, and resentment. Learn to be honest and with the tips mentioned above, you can bring out issues and tackle it without any party feeling bad.

Make your sex fun
Even in the best relationship, sex can become quite boring after a couple of years. With a little bit of imagination, you can rekindle the spark. Share those naughty taught with each other. By saying them, you increase urge for sex and also state your wants to your partner so he/she can resonate with you on that level. Baby! please wear that very short skirt while cooking and cleaning it turns me on. Sex in marriage is not only about getting down to business proper........environment, music, weather, type of clothe, food and many more contribute to good sex. Learn how to manipulate your environment and the things present in it and you will be all your partner wants to have for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Be adventurous
In Nigeria, most couples think you should only have sex in the bedroom. every other place is a sin and an abomination. Seriously? This is the first step to kill your sexual life with your partner. Maybe you’ve never had sex on the living room floor or in the bathroom or book an hotel room for yourselves just to explore your bodies; now might be the time to try it.

Be sensual
Create an environment for lovemaking that appeals to all your senses. Concentrate on the feel of your partner's body against your skin, the cool music in the background( if you don't have a music player in your room, please install one. E no cost, and if this doesn't work as i have said, email me i will pay for the money wasted). the perfumed scent of flowers around the room and the taste of ripe, juicy fruit( try fruits like berries, bananas,). Use this heightened sensual awareness when making love to your partner. I will teach you how to use these fruits in the next article ( sex tips! the real deal)

Be playful
Leave love notes in your partner’s pocket for him or her to find later. Take a bath together—the warm cozy feeling you have when you get out of the tub can be a great lead-in to sex. Tickle her, Laugh, play like kids, joke in the bedroom and outside, hold hand like teenagers, eat from the same plate in restaurants( oboy things to do plenty no be small).

Be creative
Expand your sexual repertoire and vary your scripts. if you’re used to making love on in a certain way and place, try something different. For those that have good voices, you can try singing to her even write a song. Experiment with new positions and activities. Try sexy lingerie and dancing or if you never have before.

Be romantic
Read poetry to each other under a tree or in a garden Surprise your partner with gifts( men love gifts too as much as women) when it isn’t a special occasion. Plan a day when all you do is lie in bed, talk, and be intimate. The most important tool you have at your disposal is your attitude about sexuality. Armed with good information and a positive outlook, you should be able to maintain a healthy sex life for many years to come.

Yes! All these and more should you do to increase your intimacy level. Increase your connection with your partner and make your marriage work. Most partners have never learnt how to communicate as couples, without this skill, a person is handicapped in an intimate relationship. Without being able to express themselves and listen to another, partners cannot achieve intimacy. By developing your communication skills, you and your partner will be able to establish and preserve a loving, respectful relationship between two people who love each other.
          Women! Do not think these writeup is only for men only. be spontaneous and start doing some or all of these things. Initiate the ideas, be sexy and sensual and he will crave for you. Do not allow the numerous numbers of mistresses lurking around to do it for you.
     

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